Friday, February 24, 2012
Friday, 24.2.2012
I was very disappointed and hurt when Vant told me what Dad talked to her about this morning when I'm away for my morning run. He said to Vant that he thinks I'm homosexual because I always stand up for LGBT. It's actually ''okay'' for him to say that. What's worst was when he said that, he gave those disgusted look. He also said I'm not normal. He even think that one of my friend is my girlfriend which is totally impossible and nonsense.
Sometimes, looking at those Tumblr pictures of Dads holding sign boards supporting their daughters/sons makes me tear up.
''I'm proud of my gay son!''
''We ♥ our daughter and her wife!''
It hurt so much that I want to kill myself. I love Dad so much because he always try his best to give me/provide me the things I want. All I want is him to accept who I am - Bisexuality.
P.S - I wish Dad could stop talking behind my back to Vant or Mum. It makes me feel insecure.
Labels: Acceptance
Geraldine Alexa Toh Besana , February 24, 2012
1SUCK IT
He talked to "Vant" behind you because, he knew talking about it infront of you would hurt you. As much as he doesnt want you to know he's concerned about your sexuality, although regrettably it still happened, you shouldn't be feeling hurt or disappointed by your father's actions.
First you have to understand that your dad afterall, was brought up in a different generation, an era which homo/bi are seen as a taboo. Which parent in the world doesnt want the best for their children, to see their children grow up normally and go on the right path? To them, the right path is to study work get married to a GUY and have a family. He'll need time getting used to and accept it, and trust me he will.
Meanwhile, be glad that the conversation between your dad and Vant took place, that only goes to show that he really gives a fuck about you and care for you. If it was some random stranger les on the streets he wouldnt even care, would he?
:)
First you have to understand that your dad afterall, was brought up in a different generation, an era which homo/bi are seen as a taboo. Which parent in the world doesnt want the best for their children, to see their children grow up normally and go on the right path? To them, the right path is to study work get married to a GUY and have a family. He'll need time getting used to and accept it, and trust me he will.
Meanwhile, be glad that the conversation between your dad and Vant took place, that only goes to show that he really gives a fuck about you and care for you. If it was some random stranger les on the streets he wouldnt even care, would he?
:)
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